I have to agree with Okami on this one. Although partners share a life, they should also have separate lives and be free to make some decisions on their own. ideally, two people that trust each other will feel secure even when their partner meets with someone who could be potentially romantically intentioned.
It is sooo not an easy thing to do but i hope in my next relationship I will be able to trust my partner like this and not feel like I own him or that he owns me.
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Originally Posted by Okami
But I think the problem in and of itself a lot of the time with relationships is the possessiveness. Even if he does want to take it further with her... Providing you two trust one another and you're confident she won't allow him to take it further, there shouldn't be an issue. Instead of obsessing over the idea that he has romantic intentions... Just be reassured with the fact that she's not that pathetic and won't go with it... Insecurity is a real relationship-killer.
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