My nuclear family (mother, father, grandmother) is
very important to me. If I didn't care about them, I would have followed through with some unsavory thoughts.
The rest of my family I'm pretty distanced around; the exception being one of my cousins, and one of my uncles (to a certain extent). I care about the well-being of my extended family, but I wouldn't feel entirely "safe" around them as I would my parents or my grandmother.
@starry starry sky - I'm so sorry to hear that.

That sounds needlessly cruel.