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Old Dec 03, 2011, 05:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes View Post
((((Billi)))
Well, I am no expert, but I know from my own experience I was misdiagnosed, but not with bpd. However, it is possible to have both. If you have borderline you can learn ways to help yourself in relationships, often that is a very difficult area for bpd patients, however so is PTSD. I am sorry that your having trouble with therapists, I know that problem it can be hard to find a good therapist that you can mesh well with, after all it is important to trust your therapist in order to enter into a good therapy program.

You truely cannot diagnose yourself, both bpd and PTSD do require therapy, it truely makes a difference.

((((Hugs))))billi
Open Eyes
Thanks.

I disagree about "truely cannot diagnose yourself", though. As I have said before, therapists really give me the weirds right now. I have had quite enough of them and beating my head against a wall, esp. in a system where I cannot afford quality care.

I know my own mind intimately now.

I can diagnose how I am.

I may not be "qualified" officially, but I do know myself now. More than I ever have.

And I am learning techniques to deal with my emotional regulation.

thanks,

Billi
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