I think you deserve better than a married man who should be focusing on his children and his wife. His not contacting you or contacting you isn't really about you; in these 'relationships' the married person holds all the cards and dangles the possibility of a relationship as a means of controlling the situation and having cake and eating it too. Of course some people really are trapped in sad situations with spouses who refuse to divorce them or spouses who are in comas and need the health insurance coverage. But the fact remains that a married lover isn't free and single people deserve the chance of building a solid exclusive relationship without interfering in someone else's marriage. I'm convinced that the reason why people have problems in these kind of 'relationships' is because these kind of relationships are problems.