yeah, I have problems with people posting empty posts as well. It feels bit attention seeking... and it is not helpful. Learning to communicate is first step for healing.... and you are not gonna get any advice or real support by posting "........................."

I have bit problem with people "threatening" to leave. It is tugging on heartstrings of the soft-hearted here and it feels somehow unfair.


(yes,I know we are people with issues. But we should not encourage people being manipulative. It is one thing when one has one crisis. But if it is crisis after crisis and drama after drama... people can end up tangled in it. The most good intentioned peeps too).