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Old Dec 03, 2011, 08:56 PM
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Originally Posted by needfixing View Post
my hubby too doesn't know how to react or emotionally support me when i told him about my physcial and sexual abuse.
that use to piss me off, but than i realized he had a "normal" childhood so how can he support me.
as far as your bf being that sick, ask yourself this question can you spend the rest of your life taking care of him?
(((hugs))) sorry you were abused too
I agree with how you feel about the "normal" childhood thing. Makes me wish someone would just switch me off and fix me.

I don't know if I will be good at it, but ik i will try to be good enough. Hey, a relationship requires effort both ways. How can he try to take care of me if I don't take care of him? supporting each other is what it's all about, and we'll see if he does his part.

It's great to be in a place with other survivors. Thanks for the support.
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