Okay, one more that embarrassed me since this is totally anonymous (laughing): I was complaining about my husband's problem one other time, and also telling T about how my husband TALKS incessantly. I was just talking about it without thinking and said to T that I wanted to tell my husband to just shut up and F*** me. As soon as it was out of my mouth, I was horrified. I just looked at T and said, "please tell me I didn't actually say that out loud."