[quote=likewater;2133267]In my opinion, the easiest way to have one is with a vibrator , and clitoral stimulation.

I don't even like the idea of sticking anything in me that isn't my bf's you know. He's the only person I've ever felt comfortable enough to be with like that. I really think I don't want to orgasm though. I'm happy with the way things are and the thought of losing control makes me uncomfortable.

My bf isn't so bothered by the fact that I feel this way about orgasms anymore. He's realized that he's more open minded when it comes to sex than I am, but he's bugged by the fact that I don't suggest we try different or new things in bed. I don't see the need for it and I'd rather not look things up because they are likely to shock me or make me uncomfortable. He thinks that me looking things up on my own will help me to not feel so uncomfortable and I'll eventually get used to not being shocked. I don't like feeling uncomfortable though so I'd rather not.

I've wondered if we're sexually incompatible before. I really like him though and I don't want to bother trying to be with anyone else. I figure no one else will be as patient with me. I've never felt as comfortable with anyone else as i have with him and Ive confided in him like I'd never thought I'd confide in anyone.