Saving lifes... once I was dealing with pretty bad episode and was hanging in chat with friends who tried to ensure i keep it together. And then a person bursts in about how they ODed. Talked to them and told them to go to ER. It triggered my own issues bad way. Somebody from my school recently died. Well, I had a bad night thinking I might be responsible partly for somebody's life.

next day the person appears in chat all fun and jokes....

and you wonder why soem of us are so cynical? You meet few scammers and then you never give money to beggars again. You meet few emotional scammers and you feel not so generous emotionally anymore.