Bindings and promises are the precursor to betrail and betrail consumes relativities .

This is why I say people need not get married - the breakup will cause problems and even the binding between the man and woman will cause stress. It's all because of fear.

Example of why you shouldn't marry: The midlife crisis is caused primarily of a sense of loss and fear of the inability to change what has happened and the man must make things happen in the now to regain the youthful freedom he is denied. This causes a married man to go into mania that he has lost everything to a bound state of lifestyle. A sense of loss to the promiscuous youth and unbound others once he realizes he has thrown his life away and misery later in the fact that he has loss in a divorce his manic state has caused.

Key to all of you - don't get married, stay free. This is why I love poly amory. The root cause of the midlife crisis is the fear of being alone and the problem of binding tradition - Once tormented enough by a binding to one woman by tradition a man will see that he has betrayed himself and lose the wife. Notice how it is the first thing pursued: a young lady!