I'm a little confused of your relationship. I have a couple guy friends I see as brother figures and I could never have sex with them. Mostly bc it would feel like I was having sex with my brother. So do you ACTUALLY feel that way? I guess I just don't understand wanting to have sex with a guy you see as a brother?

How does he feel? Does he only want friends with benefits or does he actually like you? Why can't you see yourself dating him? I feel like maybe you're not being completely honest with yourself here.