Hmm Wysteria...you got me thinking about this a lot now...and I thought I had an answer to this-but back to my analyzing I go-I kinda want to talk to T about it. I will have to get back to this...
what I do know is that my idealization of strong men comes from my childhood experiences...such a strong desire for that safety and comfort and stability...and probably also how I experience women-but I'm still looking into what it all means!!!