As I read your posts I think of my sons (32,29,&28). My eldest just got married in October. Two Christmas' ago, he also was alone and facing the holiday's as a single, and was bummed about it, but then in January he looked up into the church choir and saw this cute little redhead...... well by Feburary they started dating, and .... now they are married. All that to say, even 31-32 is not too late and sometimes you just have to wait for the best things. The other boys have girls at present, but the 28 y/o just started seeing his gal a couple of months ago, before that he was pretty bummed out on being single. I used to wish that the boys would have found someone earlier, cause I hated to think of them being lonely, but as I watch them now, they are better equiped to be a partner to a gal. I believe their relationships have a better chance to be long term and positive ones because they are more mature and more established in their own lives before they bring someone else into the mix.

I would council to spend your "single" time learning about yourself and being the best you. Good Luck. ((hugs))