(((((((((((((((((((((((((((DespondentDaisy)))))))))))))))))))))) That's so hard when one has to take the brunt of other people's emotions and I'm sorry you are having to deal with that.

I've noticed this year seems even worse than last year (and I thought last year was bad), with driving and how they treat people in the stores, etc.

I think this time of year is very hard on people. I bet a lot wish they could just skip the holidays but can't. And so they might resent that they are obligated to shop with money they don't have for a holiday that is going to be more stressful than enjoyable. It doesn't make their attitudes any better but more understandable maybe.

I remember when things were really over the top in my life and I wasn't in a safe place to let any type of emotion out. I know I was snapping at a lot of innocent people. I regret it so much now but back then I just couldn't contain it. Some times I didn't even see it until much later and even when I could see it happening, it just bubbled out.

As people get awareness (if they actually do get it), they will realize how it affects others. Until then, all we can do is put some armour on and hold on tight, I think. Now I often find myself acting over the top nice to people out there because I just don't want to add to anyone else's day. Like sabby said, I don't know why they are acting like they are but there are usually reasons for it.

Life is tough. I hope you are able to get through the holidays and that you aren't too badly affected by the attitudes and actions of others. Take good care.