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Old Dec 04, 2011, 11:45 PM
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I was wondering if anyone here is like this:
See I have this one offline friend (she is my only offline friend) and we use to be best friends but she has changed (and I guess in some ways I have too). But when she gets in a snappy mood (she never admits to it, she can do no wrong cause she never admits to doing any wrong) it affects me and I tell her to go away. I don't like being around people who are in that type of mood.
It could be my current boss, to one the boarders in this home to my only offline friend. When they are nasty, bitter, critical, snappy and/or sour I want them clear away from me, their mood gets to me.
Yes, I am hypersensitve to a lot of things so I was wondering if this has baring as to why other's affect me badly.
Someone once told me that it is a "co-depandant" issue, I am kind-of confused to that.
Maybe you all can explain all of this to me:
Do other's mood affect you? If so, how do you deal with it?
In your opinion, why is it that other's moods affect me (or you), psychologically speaking?
In your opinion, do you think I am handling my only friend in the right manner as in telling her to leave me alone especially when she denies her nasty behavior (she is one who can do no wrong)?
I look foward to your kind responces.
Thank you