Thank you open eyes.

Your replies make sense to me, anger is not healthy to keep (its I guess a tool, like a spanner when we need it). To be taken the p*** out of - like your neighbors and there 'wild dogs' it hard to deal with.
I honsetly think that when in life we must take action of our realities and control the situation (regarding childhood its a bit different), but open, I would not let the community rape me of my life and land.

One weird phrase I heard that justifies going to court and getting the authorities involved when being raped (or taken from or having your life and land destroyed), about revenge........."When we take revenge, it not only 'proves' that God exsists, but we are doing his work"...........I got that from a Quientin Tarrentino film......about revenge.

I understand the concept, I understand the lines that get drawn when people take the p***.......but if we did nothing then others and them (the abusers) will never leave us alone. Self defence is a natural thing.

We have to defend our selfs for the time it takes untill we are not in pain. I pray though for the ones who are the 'abusers', I pray there souls are going to be forgiven if they want it.
That is up to them, its up to us to point out that abuse and rape (in all ways), is not acceptable.

Thank you open eyes.
((open))