I am the other side of the story. I am the wife he cheated on. Well he dossn't call it cheating because it was a phone thing. At least that is what he told me at first. Then I find out he was calling up to 30 times a day and texting her up to 100 times a day. He is in the miliatary and I moved with him for 10 years. His unit was going to be deployed for the next 3 years. So I wanted to move back home to be close to my family. Our son really had no relationship with them. Well he was upset because when he got leave he could not come here. He had to stay on base. So he needed some one to talk to. Would you call it cheating ? We have been married 12 years and have a son. And we met on the internet, I was in love with him befor we every met face to face.