Well here is the latest on this situation with my dad I backed off calling him for a week and decided to send him a Birthday card and gift via internet since he refused to talk to me. In card I sent to him I included a poem about fathers and daughters and the wrote that I was sorry I hurt him. Well it was two days ago he received those items no response from him. So today I went over his house to talk. Well when I went over he spent 10 mins. berating and telling me how selfish I am and he does not believe that I mixed up the days for his party. He accused me of purposely not going to his party because "that is the kind of thoughtless person I am". It when on like that for a little while and I said nothing than finally I couldn't take anymore I said "would you let me explain. To which he more or less said that there was nothing really to explain because he knows what kind of thoughtless self centered person I am. He said he was tired of my excuses and that he disowns me. Then we really start to argue and he said you know "[censored] you" to me which he has never in my 29 years has uttered to me and he told me to get the "[censored] out of his house". And that was how it was left. I am so at loss as what to do now.

Jennifer