I have been married for 12 years and just found out my husband has been calling, texting and i think Skyping a girl he met on line. Some times calling her up to 30 times a day and texting up to 100 times a day. He is in the military and is stationed in another state. I moved back home because he was being deployed so much and I was so lonely in just another state where i knew no one. I moved with him for 10 years and just wanted to reconnect with my family. Well now he is saying it is my fault because I left... he didn't care I was lonely or that our son had no relationship with my family. He wanted us there when he got leave.
So thats what I am asking is it cheating? I have been crying and throwing up over this for a week now. Can I ever trust him again?