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Originally Posted by morningcalm
No, you're not a mess. You're going through a massive loss. And you're in the midst of the hardest stage.
Believe it or not...you're doing much better than I ever did. Even with my countless experience with relationships, my last "heartbreak" had me in bed for -over a year. I isolated myself in pain...I couldn't, didn't want to talk. But you're expressing your feelings and reaching out to others for help (and also, to help).
This is huge...considering that you're dealing with a loss of "a third of your life" relationship. Know that you're in the most painful place of mourning now. The rest of it will become more manageable once you move from this. (Myself --I'm still in recovery...but finally able to get out and enjoy physical activities on some rare days...)
Just do what you can to take care of yourself - when you can (every bit helps)...and I'm sure you will to come out of this way stronger than before.
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I'm sorry your heartbreak has kept you down for so long... I sometimes want to just give up and not do anything... I wake up with all this extreme sadness and it's hard to push it away.
I'm glad that you are able to get out more and enjoy physical activities, that's definately a good thing.
This year just has been a huge pain in my life. The beginning of the year I lost my grandmother (who was also like my mom who raised me when my mom couldn't), my best and only friend is too busy with his life and new girlfriend so I don't have him around to hang with... then she leaves me after so long.
Thank you so much for your caring and understanding posts... they really do help to read from someone who truly understands how painful heartbreak can be... you keep taking care of yourself too!
