Vossie42: Gosh, I don't know if I could take all that@ I rememeber several years ago I worked in a real estate office and amid having a horrible vicious end to a close friendship (see my"I will not be undone" poem in creative corner) I also had to deal with a bully of a coworker and I just had no rest. I would be under stress at work and then come home to more stress. I give you props for sticking around so long, I definitely couldn't do it. I guess I'm a bit overly sensitive too.