(((((happycheeks)))))

Every day of not self-harming is an achievement, so I think that's fantastic! I am glad that you have decided not to self-harm, but am concerned that you are doing it for your boyfriend. The person you should be doing this for the most, is you. Because if you do something for someone else, and (God forbid), they leave your life, then the reason is gone. But you will be with you forever.

I find that what has helped me not to self-harm, is not to be overly concerned with a month from now, or a year from now...but instead taking things one day at a time. After all, today is the only day we can live. Wasting time pondering the past or the future does us no good, so I try to live in the moment!

You will be in my thoughts.