I like this post too, nice to get my mind on to other things.

I think it's great that you are good and quick to communicate with your partner about such things. This will be really important core beliefs and parenting style!

I have such fond memories of my 2 sons dressing up in big sissy's dresses and fluffy tutu skirts! She would love to dress them and paint their nails. What fun we had. They did not actually ever ask to wear it in public, but i would support it absolutely. We have close friends who are gay/lesbian. So it's not so taboo to talk about in our family. I volunteer at the elementary school and it's not uncommon for boys to have painted nails, lol, it's all good fun.

The adolescent years are a huger struggle and must be handled delicately seriously and compassionately, everyone will have different needs, preferences, genetic makeup. imho