flapjack, I know this is hard. It says good stuff about you that you don't want to turn away someone who is calling for your help. It shows that you care about other people and want to help. But, the fact that he is calling you so insistently and trying to trick you into picking up by calling from restricted numbers really shows how much he needs to get help elsewhere. It's not healthy that someone of his age only has someone of your age in his life. It's wrong, and it's too much to ask of you. It is his responsibility to find healthy connections elsewhere. Leave him to it and he will find his way. You can't do that for him. Most of all, the relationship has not been healthy for you -- it has been painful and your boundaries have not been respected. He needs a lot of serious help if he's making sexual advances and sexual talk towards someone of your age. And it's also a crime for him to do that. Please stay true to yourself and keep away from him. He's old enough to take care of himself, and I can see that you are smart enough to do the same for yourself. Please, please, please take good care of you. If you need accountability for this, please feel free to just write here each day. I'll look for it.

Be well,

mtd