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Originally Posted by 3rdTimesTheCharm
Instead, quitting just seems like running away here. You want something from your T, but instead of sticking around and asking for it, you're giving up.
I wouldn't-- it sounds like you have much to learn. I wonder why you think your T "wants" you to leave your W-- usually T's are not in the business of wanting anything specific for you, except for you to be healthier. So that is probably projection on your part, and that would be a great topic for T.
Anne
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It's not projection... It's what she sees as healthy for me. In T's response she said that I have to know that things will not change because my W won't admit SHE has issues, like being controlling. So if my W won't change and I won't leave then there will always be bumps in the road. I don't know how to ask for what I need, and I do have a bunch to learn.