Hi everybody,

Thank you for your responses. I think I had to ponder this alone for a little while before coming back here to share how I feel about all of this. I think, once I got over the guilty shock of searching for her Facebook & finding it, I realized that actually it wasn't that big of a deal. I blocked her on Facebook like someone suggested, and it hasn't been a problem since.

She talked with me at my last session about her phone call with no message. She didn't leave a message because she felt unsure if I wanted one and she was unsure of what she could say (what would be helpful vs. unhelpful, I guess). I told her I didn't get the missed call until later and that I didn't know what to do since she didn't leave a message, and I thought maybe she had accidentally dialed my number. I think she said something to me about it being okay for me to call her just to touch base if I really need it or something but I was so flustered and intent on trying to act normal that I missed what she said I'm sorry, too, because I would like to know if that's the case. Even if I don't ever call, it's comforting to know there's someone I COULD call if I needed and wanted to...

If I were more assertive, I'd bring this up!!! Working on assertiveness is a big part of what I'm trying to do in therapy now. Maybe one day!!