Jealousy is such an uncomfortable feeling . I feel for you.
I am envious of my T, too. I envy her professional success, I envy her ocean view home, I envy her car. Lot's of small, stupid things. I haven't discussed it with her yet, but I am sure it will come up.
I agree with what Hankster wrote you, this is all grist for the mill. Too bad it's so painful on the way .