I just wanted to chime in that I struggle a lot with the T relationship and the wanting it to be 'more'. My T has told me that she will be 'here' as long as I need her, so I'm hoping that means that eventually this feeling of wanting to be 'more' will fade.
Peaches I also understand what you mean when you say that you don't regard her in the same way as your dentist or gp. I have said that many, many times to my T. And her response has always been 'Well, I certainly hope not, this is relationship is more than those'.
I actually sent her a text a little while ago asking her I'll get to a point where I look at just as a 'therapist'? I know some will say, and maybe they're right, that it's the transference talking, but it doesn't stop the imbalanced feelings.

Good luck