I broke up with him. It went relatively well, no screaming or freaking out- thought there were some tears, some on my part too. I felt really bad- but we ended up hugging and pouring a little sparkling white wine and we did a toast- wishing each other well in the future (his idea). We might even remain friends. He said he has no bad feelings towards me because I've always been so nice . .. It was tough to do, but I'm glad I got through it.