It can be troubling to present children with an image of Santa Claus coming in a magical way to present gifts and then they find out it is not real. I often wondered about that. I have to admitt that I went along with that magical process with my own daughter and I also had to see her disappointment at finding out the truth. I am not sure that is such a healthy way to raise children, I wonder what that does to their sense of reality to be honest.

I know that we all get messages of this great push to go out and buy gifts and it is even a big indicator for our economy. It is a strange way to look at how well we are all doing isn't it? And for those that cannot afford to participate in this expense, it is pretty cruel to be honest. It should not be about our pocketbooks and how well we can lavish gifts on others. It should be a celebration of giving kind thoughts and finding ways to appreciate the things we have, no matter how small these things may be. It should really not bring into focus what we do not have and somehow be tormented for month and feeling a loss from it. It is a painful time for many and right now in the world more so than ever before.

We have to find it in our hearts to remember to be thankful for the things we do have in our lives and find happiness even if it is only in the simple expression of getting through another day or sending the gift of kind thoughts to others where ever we can. Even if it is only here in PC, that is enough, remembering other members and giving support is an excellent gift in my opinion. It is up to us to plan to celebrate this holiday in a way that is manageable for us, not feel that we have to feel a need or a sense of loss by something that is pretend or imaginary.

Open Eyes