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Originally Posted by roadrunnerbeepbeep
But I want this new T to see thru that. I've been processing this all day, & I'm worried that I've got him fooled. I don't know how to tell him what's wrong. Plenty is, but it's going to take forever for him to see thru the pretense & pull away the mask & we can get down to work.
I'm sick to death of new Ts.
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Could you help him out a little with this? It kinda sounds like you're expecting HIM to do the work. Could you work with him on this, and say something like you know you're wearing a mask but you don't know how to remove it? That you're very aware that you're using pretense? That you're worried that you've got him fooled into thinking you're perfectly OK, when you know you're not? It sounds like you have plenty of self-awareness. Can you share some of that with him? He's supposed to be on your side - not an adversary.