Oh, Penny. I think it's also common to be surrounded by "friends" that take advantage ie borrow money dont give it back or suck all
the life out of you or both. I had "friends" and roomates like this that even stole from me and others and were prosecuted by the
courts. After a lot therapy, i got new friends that dont take advantage. I couldnt believe it when my best friend reminded me she
owed me money( i have a horrible memory). As you start to heal, little by little, things improve. I guess, it's not until i look back that i
can see small improvements that made a big difference. Don't panic, im not saying you have to drop your friend. Just be aware of
how she treats you and makes you feel and make sure to not lend her more money.