((( dear Sunny ))) thanks for your comment. I applauded your tracing your feelings back to the past and all, but since I was the only one who made the comment I did, I admit I have been wondering whether I am too focused on inappropriate scorekeeping. I hope I didn't squelch your happiness at being able to identify the source of your feelings. That was never my intention.

at any rate, you did so well with your working-through, and also I think your T is a peach for making up yr missed time. This was the right thing to do.