((((((((((((((Lar))))))))))))))))))
Just wanted to let you know your in my thoughts! My mother was very manipulative when she became ill. My brother and I used to be close until she started to tell him one thing then tell me another. Since her funeral we have not talked. But when I was a teen I was her caregiver and I ended up letting myself be drawn into her illness. I am so glad you have your sister and she has you for support. You need that! The one thing I really wish I would have done was seperate myself from her situation. It is very easy as children to get pulled in. Please tell yourself you have done everything in your power you can. Find comfort in that as well as in the support you receive from your sister.
HUGS
Cher