I never believed it before, but in my session today I realised it was true: I'm a good father.

We were talking about nurturing my inner baby, and I was saying to T, "You're the mother I needed." And then ... I suddenly had this image of T and me bringing up a baby together, and the baby is also me. OK, so I haven't been a good father to myself yet, but I know I can do it.

I have been a good father to my own daughter. There's really nothing to see, but I am always there, and that's what counts. Being a good father is important. I should be proud! No one can take that away from me. My daughter will carry it with her long after I am dead. I'm a success! I'll never think of myself as a failure again.