Two years ago my husband comitted bestiality with a calf. He confessed to me and told me that he suffered from sexual fantasies and constant perversions he had very little desire to be with me intimitely after the day we got married and eventually told me why:

He told me he was molested when he was ten by a worker that worked on his parents farm, He had blocked it out in his mind so he couldnt remember what happened or who the farm worker was, he said that when he told his mother about it she just said "thats nice" and carried on.

He told me that since he was a teenager he had been comitting bestiality with the dog at home and with several animals. He had sexual thoughts about men, old women and was caught masterbating several times at work.

when I discovered all of this my inclination was to leave him. as soon as I told him that we were seperating his family came in swept up all the pieces and even put it into his head that I was the one to blame in all of this.

I have tried contacting him several times, each time the family has tried to stop me from speaking to him have even changed phone numbers in case I try to ring him.

I am starting to have my suspicions that the person that molested him was his own father what is the likelihood of this?