hi all,
i met a friend a few months ago and the friendship got intense pretty quickly. things were ok for a wesshile until her (untreated) depression started consuming her (and me). we both spiraled. i started cutting again. she would make suicidal gestures and is terrifiedto be alone or "abandoned." shes been hospitalized twice in the past month, shes homeless,has no job, no car and an unsupportive family. however, there ishelp out there available to her but she doesnt seemto care. my mistake was trying to fix her problems for her. now i just want to distance myself...but we both belong to the same art studio and we cant avoid seeing each other. now, i know BPD. i have it. and i went through the DBT classes and found it extremely helpful. this girl is just not accepting boundaries and i dread hanging out with her. she never has a plan or any money and never knows where shes going to stay that night which puts me in a very uncomfortable position. i dont know how to get the boundaries without being a total ******. sorry for all the typos, the keyboard on my phone decided to change itself on it own