Roadrunner, IMO, no apologies needed, you said a LOT of great stuff in your earlier (both!) post. I just felt like MY earlier post was being perceived as negative in tone, which was not how I intended it. I was just saying, follow your thoughts out. And you did the same thing, in a way - will there be a love nest? If that is the fantasy, it needs to be brought into the open and discussed. MY fantasy is T telling me and his dogs to get into the car on Saturday afternoon - "Get into the car, girls!" What is THAT about??!! And don't tell me THAT'S not a fantasy worth risking his license for!