Gracey, I am suppose to bring my fiance to my appointment next week. I don't know if this is how you are feeling but I view my time with my pdoc as "my personal thing" I guess I can understand your T's side but I think I can also understand yours. I think it would be great to have your support system so actively involved in your therapy but on the other side of it all I can see where it could be a bit difficult. As far as not being able to actually say what you want too have you thought about writing it?
HUGS
Cher