Oh, sorry! I think my imagination ran away with me! That does sound amazing! Much better than what I was thinking, for sure! Really, I am so sorry.

Still, it bothers ME that he said he could see you being friends after the ethical time limit had pased. That would change things for me, and not in a good way. He SAYS he's putting you first, but he clearly put himself first. You don't have to be some female definition of attractive for a man to have certain feelings. It sounds to me like he already let the cat out of the bag. You will find postings by me with the same statements - I am not cute, T is gorgeous, therefore blah blah blah.

It sounds too facile - you're not cute, he can put a hold on his feelings. I think he has already crossed the line - the way he said, now tell me what you're really thinking - a therapist wouldn't push like that, he did that for his own gratification. I saw that as a red flag before I read the rest of that first post. Telling you he really likes his job, wink wink hint hint. IDK. Proceed with caution? I think you're on thin ice. Proceed at your own risk.