My T has told me that he likes me and would want to be friends after therapy is over....and he even wanted me to consider working with him.

Those things scare me to death - but also help me feel likeable! It doesn't necessarily mean he wants to jump my bones! My T has a beautiful wife, three beautiful little girls - and I wouldn't think in a million years that he had a thing for me. I am likeable though, and it makes me feel good just thinking that he'd like me as a friend.

I do realize that we each have our own experiences, fears, ideas, interpretations, etc. that go into what we share here. Some people may see red flags - which is worthwhile to explore and see if it's a fit or not. If not, then it may have more to do with the person seeing the red flags.