Thread: Married to a T - what's it like?
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Old Dec 08, 2011, 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted by skysblue View Post
she can blow her top at any time.

I'll ask her why she can't apply her attitude to me that she does with her clients and she'll say that she doesn't want to have a 'therapeutic' relationship with me but rather a real and open and authentic relationship with me.
There's open and authentic and there's abusive. That's a fair question! My former bf of 1985 was abusive to me and kind to his clients.

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