My T is not married. Has a live in relationship with a woman for 9 years.
He is divorced. Think because he ignored his first wife while developing his career as a psychologist. He hasn't tied the knot with this second woman. He travels extensively without her. She works a lot too.
He often speaks about needing his time alone, and how crowded their little home is. He said he sometimes leaves and goes into the office just to get a little space for himself. He has built himself a "mancave" in the basement. Well, all could still be hunky dory between them. I dont know have a clue one way or the other. But I sure would like to be a fly on the wall to find out what they are like together. Especially since I am in an abusive relationship with my husband. Is he ever like him? I wont believe it could be so.