thanks. we (T & I) got into what it meant today. not much! as in, I sure don't expect to get very much, do I? treated like a pet. no input into family decisions, let alone being informed about them ahead of time. Just - get into the car, we're leaving! Sky, maybe you've hit on something - maybe my fantasy and Masimo's are more alike than different. We just want a safe place? Well, too safe is no fun, and not adult. Not even human, by me!