Skittles,

I agree. If you have the oppertunity and it seems like the right thing to do, then, if you boyfriend cares for you, he will go to. If not, well then, as they say "there are plenty of fish in the sea". Not to say dump him, but what kind of support is he if he doesn't have your needs in mind as well? I don't know your relationship, so perhaps I'm speeking out of turn.

But, my experience tells me that sometimes we need to reevaluate our relationships because they may not be the kind that is good for us. Sometimes, especially with a personal history, we attract that which we are trying to get away from. Just a thought.

Good Luck,
SongBird