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Originally Posted by WePow
I would think a healthy T would be the same way. They would not want to stay in T mode all the time. If they were to do that, I suspect they would burn out very quickly.
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You can't BE healthy and be in T mode all the time, right, because then you'd never get any of your own needs met? To be completely focused on another person without any expectation or happening of reciprocal support is as unhealthy as only being focused on yourself. Well, maybe not *quite* as unhealthy, but who would want a partner who never wanted or wouldn't accept any support or attention directed at him? That would make me feel like a total . . . taker.
Anne