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Old Dec 09, 2011, 09:50 AM
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(((((Elana))))))

Every Human being wonders about their self worth and how to present themselves in the best way they can. You will be entering into an experience that is truely a learning experience about participating in an atmosphere where a certain activity is taking place. I don't know what the environment is, but whatever it is the most important thing people want to know is if you will learn the important how to's so that you can work independantly along a given guideline and also be a part of a team that is trying to provide some kind of service.

The person who will be training you will just be looking for someone who can understand the procedures she will be showing you and then follow them. No one is going to expect you to just jump into a job function and know exactly what the procedure is. Most of the time it is more about respecting the other people and how they just work as a team. So that is what you truely have to focus on and try not to worry about just people pleasing. Be pleasent and willing and conscentrate on the job at hand.

Elana, you going to be learning, that is what you have to remind yourself most of all, and every person you meet had to go through the same process. And the best way to be in a group of people is be respectful to others and try not to participate in whatever soap opera activities that may be presented. There always seems to be a little of that in any group of people that work together. The decision you make is about doing the job and also doing your best to listen and find ways to be respectful of others and remembering that you are there for the job itself.

I don't know exactly what your doing, but you ARE going to learn and there is nothing better than making every attempt to just learn. Everyone pretty much has their own presentation of a personality that meets the need of the working enviornment. That is all you need to do, focus on the job, and be respectful.

Good Luck,
We are always here to listen. If you run into some questions we can all do our best to offer our support.

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