Hey midget84.

That guy just yes sounds abusive. I would cut contact with him. There's no reason to continue such a abusive relationship. Nothing but bad things come from it.

I also think the underlying problem here is a self-esteem issue. You also said your boyfriend before this guy was also abusive. If you have low self-esteem you often attract these kinds of people in your life. I really suggest improving your self-esteem as this will really benefit your relationships.

You should clearly establish your boundaries in a relationship early on. Something tells me you don't do that enough yet. Of course, there is no excuse for abusive behavior from someone, but it does work both ways. There is a victim and victimizer... they attract each other.

Well take care and I hope you get through your troubles.