I'm so sorry that you are going through this with your T. I think your t is neglecting her responsibilities to you as a client. If she is unable to be your therapist right now, she owes it to you to refer you to someone else. I don't think it's right that you are in limbo like this and without proper care from her. This whole situation doesnt sound right to me at all. I'm surprised no one is saying this, or maybe i am missing something? Your t's personal problems should not affect your treatment. Can you find another T in the meantime who could help you through this period of uncertainty? There are other Ts out there who will see you for a sliding fee. hang in there..