I am 21 and he is 25. We are having a relationship for about 3.5 years. Quite often he asked me to break up (never explained why), until the last time he told he was doing it because he was feeling he was 'playing' with me as long as he did not know whether he wanted to marry me or not. (he is a christian orthodox). I never talked to him about marriage, i am quite free, and at my age I do not even think abouy it. One month ago he said that if we stoped having sexoual intercourses he would feel relaxed and we would continue to be together( the last time we are together for about 5months). He said he was feeling that he does not want to look at me like a "sex tool" to be more serious with me. I said ok, lets try. We had sex because he wanted, then he said it was a mistake, and the point is he always talks to me about what he can do to me (sexoually), kinki staff and he keeps turning me on by touching me, then he leaves... It is somekind of paranoia. Now that we do not have sax i feel more like a sex tool! All of what he sais is raunchy and kinky... I do not know what to do, isn t it immature?? He sais i exaggerate that i keep asking me what he wants, he sais it is obvious he wants us to stop having sex, but is it obvious??? then why doesnt he speaks of anything else? Why he keeps on touching me??